What is Coaching?
You may have heard of a lot of terms that are easy to confuse with coaching such as therapy, consulting, sports coaching or mentoring.​ The process of coaching is different from each one of these in a distinct set of ways.
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True coaching is done by a certified professional and in a very unique way.
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Coaching helps you gain greater awareness of who you are at every moment, and take action toward the things that are important to you
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A coach helps you:
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Stay true to your values as you set goals
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Discover ways to navigate your inner blocks
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Gain awareness about your energy levels at every moment
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Achieve meaningful goals that matter to you
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A coach will not give you advice or judge you - your answers come from within and should work for you
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A coach might however challenge you in a respectful manner and with your permission
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A coach will champion and celebrate you and inspire you to be your best self
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You as the client lead every coaching session - each session is about you
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I as the coach, will hold your agenda and help you stay accountable to what you say you will do
Energy Leadership & You
I've used the word Energy a few different times on this website. So what is Energy, and what is Energy Leadership?
Core Energy Coaching works on the idea that all of us possess two types of energy at all times.
1. Catabolic Energy which is a destructive, “tearing down” force, often associated with stress.
2. Anabolic Energy which is a constructive, “building up” force, associated with less stress.
Catabolic Energy: When someone perceives a situation as being stressful, the brain creates catabolic hormones like adrenaline and cortisol. The purpose of these hormones is to provide energy to push through stress. While people can work well under stress and experience short-term success, the long-term impact can be draining and affect levels of fulfillment. When people experience stress, it is difficult to look past the stressor and see the choices that could be available to them.
Anabolic Energy: When the brain isn’t under stress, it tells the body to release anabolic hormones that are designed to optimize systems. As a result, it is easier to focus on solutions, tap into creativity, and experience a more complete and conscious view of situations. The less judgment and fear people have about themselves and situations, the more anabolic energy they can access.
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In Core Energy Coaching, we work with the concept that all of us possess a combination of seven levels of energy at all times (see chart above) - Levels 1 and 2 being catabolic, and Levels 3 - 7 being anabolic. We do not label these levels as positive/negative/good/bad. We need all seven levels of energy at different times (including catabolic levels albeit not for long periods at any given time) - however, the question is whether we are choosing the energy we display consciously at any given moment, or just defaulting to a level because we are reacting to a situation due to stress or anger.
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Leadership is the ability to influence others. Leadership does not require you to hold a particular title or manage people, therefore, everyone can be a leader.
The Energy you bring to every interaction has the potential to influence that situation.
Therefore, Energy Leadership focuses on how you can become more aware of the energy you possess at every moment and in every situation, and in time, choose the kind of energy you bring into a space, so that your leadership can be a more anabolic experience for yourself and those around you.
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Foundational Principles
These are some of the foundational principles from iPEC that I truly believe and base my coaching practice on. These may or may not resonate with you, and that's ok! And of course, as we partner together as coach and client, we can use those that work for you in our sessions.
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You cannot make a mistake
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The answer to all questions lie within
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The only constant is change
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Each one of us is greater and wiser than we appear to be
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Life offers neither problems nor challenges, only opportunities
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Life is a perfect adventure; a game that cannot be won or lost, only played
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The world is a perceptual illusion
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We are each a product of our own belief system
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Anyone's journey is as unique and valuable as any other's journey
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Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional
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Energy attracts like energy
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Truth exists regardless of belief or consensus
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We either grow or die